Hmmm, now for the proper answer.
The ported throttle body will give you far greater pulling power throughout the rev range and it is noticable.
The chip is also VERY noticable, (ask forum mod nigel, i did his)
Porting the head is worth 2-4hp (if you manage to make power)
I had a 3 grand head on my car and trust me, there are little gains in the head porting, in 1991 CCC gave an M20 head to Dave Vizzard and in 2 weeks of extensive work he got 2hp !!!
The m20 and m30 heads are very good standard.
Now for the afm.
Yes, get rid of this and fit a map and you will be happy, this needs aftermarket ecu like emerald, vtech, etc etc.
Throttle boddies like dbillas are good but cost 1800 quid and will make many problems setting them up.
Get throttle body, chip and decent air filter and you wont regret it.